Hogyan reagálnátok egy ilyen helyzetben?

44: szerintem nem túl egészséges, ha aggódsz amiatt, hogy mit fognak reagálni, de te tudod.

46: bemásolok egy párat, mert másnak is hasznos lehet:

“Don’t believe a word they tell you, 98% of what comes out of their mouths is a lie. Pick up the pieces you have left and go forward because whatever he has made you believe isn’t true about him or yourself.“

“I’ve seen it go a few different ways, depending on the narcissist and their relation to you:

Oblivious. They’re so focused on themselves or so busy with others that they literally don’t notice something’s wrong with you, even if you flat out tell them you’re sick. If they do notice, they won’t acknowledge it because it doesn’t interest or benefit them. They’ll continue with life as usual, and continue expecting you to play your role as if you’re fine. They’ll seem bewildered and surprised every single time you remind them of your illness, as if this is their first time hearing about it, or they’ll stare blankly and change the subject as if you didn’t just say that. If you get worse and collapse, they will step over you and continue with their day as if they didn’t see a thing, only calling for help if and when there’s some benefit for them in doing so; and if you manage to call for help yourself, or a neighbor finds you and asks why they haven’t called an ambulance or at least tried to help you up, the narcissist will swear up, down and sideways that they didn’t know you were on the floor (true story).

Angry. It’s an inconvenience to them, you’re not doing what they want you to do right now and they’ll never forgive you for it. People will see you like this and expect them to care and help, which they feel is beneath them, unpleasant and a waste of their time, and they resent you for “forcing” them to do it just because it’s what they’re “supposed” to do. How ridiculous! Why should they, right? Your illness is your problem, and surely it’s your fault because you do everything wrong all the time and you’re “weak” (or you’re super stressed and neglecting yourself because they think like this all the time and don’t give a shit what you need, but what do you know, right?), and they will make a career out of telling you it’s your fault and it’s inconveniencing them until you either die and set them free of this horrid burden, or you improve enough to drag yourself out of bed and pretend to be fine while you get back to doing things for them.“