Miért állítják be sok filmben a fiúk szexuális vágyát úgy, mintha valami bűn lenne?

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de mért lenne csak akkor megengedett??? tudom, hogy ugy gondolják de mért kell ugy gondolni??

Valakitől egyszer azt hallottam, hogy: "Isten a nemi közösülést gyermeknemzés céljaként teremtette, nem az önkényes szexuális vágyak csillapítására."

Nem szó szerint idéztem, de a lényeg ez volt. :-)

Itt van nektek egy idézet Joseph Matthews könyvéből. Van benne igazság.

"Once upon a time, back in the days of nomads and camels, when life was harsh, you needed strong men to work the fields, tend the flock, and carry on the family name and fortune.

In days like this, women were worthless. They were only good for the pleasure of sex, tending to their husband, and birthing a male heir.

Because of this, women were used as commodities. Fathers would barter their daughters to other families in exchange for land, animals, gold, and whatever else they could negotiate. This way, they would get rid of another mouth to feed, and add to the family fortune.

But because it was important to have male heirs, those bartering for the women wanted to make sure they were “untouched.” After all, who would want to care for a child who was not his own in these difficult times?

So a woman who had sex before marriage, in a time when there was no such thing as birth control, would very likely get pregnant.

And a pregnant woman, or a woman with a child out of wedlock, could not be married off to another family.

So to ensure their daughters retained maximum tradability, fathers would forbid sex. They would guard their daughter’s virginity with their life – especially if he had no male heirs.

It was in this time that religion adopted the notion of “no sex before marriage” concept, as a form of birth control.

This way, women would stay in line and protect their virginity of their own free will, which made the father’s job much easier.

Unfortunately, this concept hasn’t changed with the times."